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SDA-RF-CH-4.19
MEMO FROM YOUR CHILD
An appeal to respected Daddy and Mummy:
My dear Mum and Dad,.
1. Don’t be afraid to be firm with me. It makes me feel secure.
2. Don’t let me form bad habits. Please detect them early and tell
me.
3. Don’t correct me in front of people. I like being told quietly and
will change.
w4. Don’t spoil me by giving everything I ask for.
5. Don’t put me off when I ask questions, lest I seek information
elsewhere.
6. Don’t rag me. lest I protect myself by acting deaf.
7. Don’t make me feel smaller than I am. I may stupidly behave
big’.
8. Don’t make me feel that my mistakes are sins. It may upset my
values.
9. Don't tell me my fears are silly. They’re real to me. Reassure
me.
10. Don’t protect me from consequences. I need to learn the painful
way.
*11. Don't take too much notice of my small ailments, lest I am weak
to face life.
12. Don t be inconsistent, and make me lose faith in you.
13. Don’t forget I love experimenting. Please put up with it.
14. Don’t ever suggest that you are perfect and infallible, lest I
discover you’re not.
15. Don’t forget how quickly I am growing up. Please keep pace
with me.
16. Please keep yourself fit and health. I love you and need you.
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If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.
If he lives with hostility, he learns to fight.
If he lives with fear, he learns to be apprehensive.
If he lives with fear, he learns to be apprehensive.
If he lives with pity, he learns to feel sorry for himself.
If he lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient.
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If he lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy.
If he lives with shame, he learns to be ashamed of himself.
if he lives with encouragement, he learns to be confident.
If he lives with praise, he learns to be appreciative.
If he lives with acceptance, he learns to love.
If he lives with approval, he learns to like himself.
If he lives with recognition, he learns to have a goal.
If he lives with fairness, he learns to value justice.
If he lives with honesty, he learns to value truth.
If he lives with security, he learns to have faith in himself and
others.
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3) Donate / Discard unused medicine as applicable.
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